Here are 3 love truth every women must know. Dating isn’t a breeze. A vicious tornado is more like it. So, the folks at Condé Nast publications interviewed some top-notch experts and came up with a few love truths every woman must know. Here they are.
If he doesn't call you in a week, he's not interested. According to Dr. Judith Sherven, a clinical psychologist in New York, when a guy lets a week pass before contacting you, it's his way of forcing “casualness" in the relationship. It's an unspoken signal that he doesn't want to pursue you seriously - either because the timing was off or he just didn't click with you.
By date 3, you might reject him. That's the word from Dr. James Sneechowski, co-author of the book Be Loved for Who You Really Are. He says at this point, you start noticing flaws. But getting nitpicky is a sign you're considering him as a possible partner. You start kicking the tires like you would a car because it's a huge investment. So don't run the other way when he starts falling from grace. Understand that this is totally normal, and get to know him well before you make any big decisions.
And the 3rd truth every woman must know when it comes to love: Don't get stuck thinking that you only have ONE soul mate. According to Sneechowski, defining what you want EXACTLY in a partner is impractical. It keeps you from getting serious with different guys because you're holding out for THE ONE. The doctor says soul mates aren't hatched. They grow. You make a connection, build a relationship and then realize this is the person with whom you were meant to be. So throw away that list of requirements and give the not-so-perfect guys a chance.